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50 Shades of Aging

Day to day caretaking takes fortitude, but can yield some pretty great life lessons...

Who knew it would take so many years?  

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Wishing you...
Wishing you...

A special Thank You…

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emily gaffneyDecember 24, 2018Comment
Downstairs, Upstairs and In Between - Journeying Into Dementia
Downstairs, Upstairs and In Between - Journeying Into Dementia

I felt a particular fondness for Josephine, who had been an army officer…

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Lisa KuselDecember 20, 2018 Comments
The (Dreaded) Christmas Effect
The (Dreaded) Christmas Effect

I’m scared… Christmas is almost here and Mom will be exactly 92.5 years old on her birthday…

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Emily GaffneyDecember 12, 2018Comment
The Man on the Bed
The Man on the Bed

I made a new friend yesterday, his name is Lenny and he’s 85. He happens to be dying of lung cancer but we didn’t talk much about that.

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Bryce WardenNovember 27, 2018 Comments
Giving Thanks
Giving Thanks

Life was predictably unpredictable in my home as a kid, but one thing I could count on…

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Emily GaffneyNovember 21, 2018 Comments
Up In Smoke
Up In Smoke

His last conscious act was holding a cigarette and a lighter, and then just staring at his hands,

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Elise SeyfriedNovember 16, 2018Comment
A Mother's Rolling Back Pack and Lessons in Love
A Mother's Rolling Back Pack and Lessons in Love

The lessons to be taken from my Mother’s life could fill a book.

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Jill EbsteinNovember 1, 2018 Comment
My Valiant Mom
My Valiant Mom

She screams herself out of her sleep. Sometimes, it’s pain from the phantom limb, sometimes it’s pain in the existing limb; sometimes, it’s both.

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Alexandra LehOctober 23, 2018Comment
Friendship Can Take You to Unexpected Places
Friendship Can Take You to Unexpected Places

Surprisingly, it wasn’t Larry who replied to my second e-mail - it was his wife.

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Rick LauberOctober 9, 2018Comment
Is This It?
Is This It?

Mom’s full sentence must be served at The Home.

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Emily GaffneyOctober 7, 2018 Comments
It's All Good. For Now.
It's All Good. For Now.

Phase I ~

You’re an enviable, golden Yummy Mummy…

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Emily GaffneySeptember 27, 2018 Comments
Balancing Trust
Balancing Trust

Could I trust her?

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Emily GaffneyAugust 29, 2018 Comments
Hats Off to Dad
Hats Off to Dad

The hat once belonged to my father, who wore it regularly on family hikes. I remember these hikes fondly …

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Rick LauberAugust 7, 2018 Comments
The Soundtrack of My Life
The Soundtrack of My Life

I never sing around the house… But then I remember my mom, and it all comes clear.

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Elise SeyfriedJuly 25, 2018Comment
Missing You...
Missing You...

Boy, have I missed you!

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Emily GaffneyJuly 3, 2018Comment
Shades of Gray
Shades of Gray

Before her, I thought of my fellow humans in simple, black and white terms—the good guys and the bad guys.

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Elise SeyfriedJune 12, 2018Comment
Alzheimer's Bull (Is It OK to ask? Is It Alzheimer's?)
Alzheimer's Bull (Is It OK to ask? Is It Alzheimer's?)

She's facing this with her headlights on, staring deep into the bull's eyes, fingers clenched around his horns.

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Pennie NicholsJune 7, 2018 Comments
A Parent Passing
A Parent Passing

It is said that losing a parent is a rite of passage but in truth it is a fundamental heartbreak that may never be resolved.

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Mandy Eve-BarnettMay 31, 2018Comment
Mother's Day Revisited
Mother's Day Revisited

Truth be told, there were a lot of years I didn’t have much to say from my heart, so I let Hallmark do it for me... not because the love wasn’t there…

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Emily GaffneyMay 16, 2018 Comments
Joanie's Two Funerals
Joanie's Two Funerals

Of all the send-offs I’ve attended to date… nothing compares to my mom’s.

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Elise SeyfriedApril 24, 2018Comment
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